i can rename but not delete
You are able to rename from the same ESX server where you are trying to delete it??
The problem is that the LUN is showing as if i can expand the currentdatastore to it even it is already part of current datastore
Error delete \vmfs\volumes\uuid\grid controller
Now, you had me a bit confused. Can you explain your setup a little bit, provided with some error messages from logs or even screenshots would be fine.